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Thursday 21 August, 2008
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tips to know he/she is in love

 Many of us know how it feels to be
rejected, not to be wanted and not to be
loved enough. And many of us stay on
guard, protecting our hearts and missing
the greatest gift of all because we are
sitting on the fence of feelings.

What does it feel like to be loved? And
how do you know if a person really loves
you or not?

Below are 15 signals that will help you
decide if the man or woman you are
attracted to -- or are with -- loves you
or not.

1. He/she shows interest in your life -
asks about your day, family, friends and
work; remembers whatever say and do etc.;

2. He/she knows exactly what makes you
smile, feel special and taken care of;

3. He/she is very affectionate,
attentive, sensitive, considerate and
cares about your needs, wants and desires;

4. He/she calls you just because he/she
was thinking about you, misses you, or
just felt like it etc.;

5. He/she wants to spend as much with
you as is possible - clears up his/her
busy schedule and makes plans just for
you, travels long distances just to be
with you etc.;

6. He/she talks to you about things
he/she doesn't talk about with anybody else;

7. He/she walks that special extra mile
just for you - shares your interests
even if he/she doesn't like what you
like, puts aside what they could be
doing just to talk, listen or do
something for you instead etc.;

8. He/she tells you how wonderful you
make him/her feel and how having you in
his/her life enriches it;

9. He/she does small unexpected things
to pleasantly surprise you- sends an
email message, shows up at your
workplace, gets you something you always
wanted etc.;

10. He/she loves and enjoys being
physically close to you;

11. He/she takes time to choose his/her
gifts for you - regardless of the price tag;

12. He/she gives without being asked and
accepts from you with gratitude;

13. He/she wants a future with you in it
talks about it and plans for it;

14. He/she tells you he/she loves you;

15. You just know it no doubting, no
questioning, no wondering, no convincing
or trying to make him/her love you and
no strings attached. You look into
his/her eyes and you know it. Something
inside of you just knows.

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