<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of abi</title><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of abi</description><language>en-us</language><item><title>love</title><description><![CDATA[<DIV align=left><FONT face=Verdana><FONT color=#000000>Here is a short story with a beautiful message...<FONT size=2> </FONT></FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma><BR><BR></DIV></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><DIV align=left><BR><FONT color=#000000>Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter,</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>'Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river.'</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>The little girl said, 'No, Dad. You hold my hand.' <BR>'What's the difference?' Asked the puzzled father.</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>'There's a big difference,' replie d the little girl.</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> <BR> </FONT><FONT color=#000000><FONT face=Verdana size=2> <BR>'If I hold your hand and something happens to me,</FONT><FONT face=Tahoma> </FONT></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>chances are that I may let your hand go.</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens,</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>you will never let my hand go.' </FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma><BR><BR></FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><FONT color=#000000>In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.</FONT></FONT><FONT face=Tahoma color=#000000> </FONT><FONT face=Verdana size=2><BR><BR><FONT color=#000000>So hold the hand of the person who loves you rather than expecting them to hold yours... <BR>This message is too short......but carries a lot of Feelings.</FONT></FONT></DIV><P align=left><BR> </P>]]></description><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 12:16:08 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/24/love-1.html</link></item><item><title>tips to know he/she is in love</title><description><![CDATA[ Many of us know how it feels to be<BR>rejected, not to be wanted and not to be<BR>loved enough. And many of us stay on<BR>guard, protecting our hearts and missing<BR>the greatest gift of all because we are<BR>sitting on the fence of feelings.<BR><BR>What does it feel like to be loved? And<BR>how do you know if a person really loves<BR>you or not?<BR><BR>Below are 15 signals that will help you<BR>decide if the man or woman you are<BR>attracted to -- or are with -- loves you<BR>or not.<BR><BR>1. He/she shows interest in your life -<BR>asks about your day, family, friends and<BR>work; remembers whatever say and do etc.;<BR><BR>2. He/she knows exactly what makes you<BR>smile, feel special and taken care of;<BR><BR>3. He/she is very affectionate,<BR>attentive, sensitive, considerate and<BR>cares about your needs, wants and desires;<BR><BR>4. He/she calls you just because he/she<BR>was thinking about you, misses you, or<BR>just felt like it etc.;<BR><BR>5. He/she wants to spend as much with<BR>you as is possible - clears up his/her<BR>busy schedule and makes plans just for<BR>you, travels long distances just to be<BR>with you etc.;<BR><BR>6. He/she talks to you about things<BR>he/she doesn't talk about with anybody else;<BR><BR>7. He/she walks that special extra mile<BR>just for you - shares your interests<BR>even if he/she doesn't like what you<BR>like, puts aside what they could be<BR>doing just to talk, listen or do<BR>something for you instead etc.;<BR><BR>8. He/she tells you how wonderful you<BR>make him/her feel and how having you in<BR>his/her life enriches it;<BR><BR>9. He/she does small unexpected things<BR>to pleasantly surprise you- sends an<BR>email message, shows up at your<BR>workplace, gets you something you always<BR>wanted etc.;<BR><BR>10. He/she loves and enjoys being<BR>physically close to you;<BR><BR>11. He/she takes time to choose his/her<BR>gifts for you - regardless of the price tag;<BR><BR>12. He/she gives without being asked and<BR>accepts from you with gratitude;<BR><BR>13. He/she wants a future with you in it<BR>talks about it and plans for it;<BR><BR>14. He/she tells you he/she loves you;<BR><BR>15. You just know it no doubting, no<BR>questioning, no wondering, no convincing<BR>or trying to make him/her love you and<BR>no strings attached. You look into<BR>his/her eyes and you know it. Something<BR>inside of you just knows. ]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:22:36 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/23/tips-to-know-he-she-is-in-love.html</link></item><item><title>types of men</title><description><![CDATA[<STRONG>The Strong Man</STRONG> <BR><EM>I hold you in my arms and I make you feel safe.</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Yes Man</STRONG> <BR><EM>I genuinely agree with you. What you think really matters to me.</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Ideal Man </STRONG><BR><EM>I am a man you can look up to.</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Me-Too Man </STRONG><BR><EM>We like the same things! We love doing stuff together!</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Only-You Man</STRONG> <BR><EM>I see the uniqueness in you: no one else is like you are.</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Change-me Man </STRONG><BR><EM>The things you do deeply affect me: you can change me.</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Self-Starter Man</STRONG> <BR><EM>Let's talk! Let's go out! Let's meet friends!</EM> <BR><BR><STRONG>The Lover</STRONG> <BR><EM>I accept and value your feelings for me and the specific ways in which youexpress them. I love you.</EM> <BR>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:20:26 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/23/types-of-men-1.html</link></item><item><title>love someone</title><description><![CDATA[<SPAN style="COLOR: red"><SPAN style="COLOR: red"><SPAN style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: yellow"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt"><STRONG><FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" color=#000000 size=2>If you Love someone because you think he or she is gorgeous....<BR>then it's not love: It's - </FONT></STRONG><STRONG><FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff"><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: red; BACKGROUND-COLOR: yellow"><FONT style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #ffffff" color=#000000>"Infatuation" -<BR></FONT></SPAN><BR>If you love someone because you think you should not leave him or her because other think you shouldnot....<BR>then it's not love: It's - "Compromise" -<BR><BR>If you love someone beacuse you think you cannot live without his or her touch....<BR>then it's not love: It's - "Lust" -<BR><BR>If you love someone because you have been kissed by him or her...<BR>then it's not love: It's - "Inferiority Complex" -<BR><BR>If you love someone because you think if you leave it will hurt his or her feelings...<BR>then it's not love: It's - "Charity" -<BR><BR>If you love someone because you share everything with him or her....<BR>then it's not love: It's - "Friendship" -<BR><BR>But if you feel pain of the other person more than him or her even when he is stable and you cry for him or her...<BR>that's - "LOVE" -<BR><BR>If you are attracted to a person and stay with him or her for ever without any regrets...<BR>that's - "LOVE" -<BR><BR>If you let him go knowing that he or she has to go but he or she doen't want to...<BR>that's - "LOVE</FONT></FONT></FONT></STRONG></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN></SPAN>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:17:45 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/23/love-someone-1.html</link></item><item><title>thre little words</title><description><![CDATA[<FONT color=#000000 size=2>Three little words can make a difference in one's life. There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of just three words.</FONT><P><FONT color=#000000 size=2>When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. The following three-word phrases can enrich every relationship.</FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #1852ff">I'll Be There:</SPAN><BR>If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feelsto hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person isthe greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in loveand friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Beingthere is at the very core of civility.</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #202eff">I Miss You:</SPAN><BR>Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed,desired and loved. Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle ofyour workday, just to say "I miss you."</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #4a30ff">I Respect You:</SPAN><BR>Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk toyour children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all inter-personal relationships.</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000 size=2>Maybe You're Right: This phrase is highly effective in diffusing anargument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe yourright" is the humility  of admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it.When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement theother person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to furtherexplore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to getyour view across in a more rational manner.</FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #404cff">Please Forgive Me:</SPAN><BR>Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, follies and failures.A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong,which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he wasyesterday.</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #4328ff">I Thank You:</SPAN><BR>Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don'ttake daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand,people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do nothave the attitude of gratitude.</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #4a30ff">Count On Me:</SPAN><BR>A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, agood friend is there indicating you can "count on me."</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #303dff">Let Me Help:</SPAN><BR>The best of friends see a need and try to fill it.When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without beingasked, they pitch in and help.</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #285eff">I Understand You:</SPAN><BR>People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them, is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any relationship.</FONT></FONT></P><P><FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><SPAN style="COLOR: #3c20ff">I Love You:</SPAN><BR>Perhaps the most important three words that you cansay. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs; the need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your family, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words. "I love you."</FONT></FONT></P>]]></description><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 12:17:26 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/23/thre-little-words-1.html</link></item><item><title>clever student -</title><description><![CDATA[<FONT color=#000000><FONT size=2><FONT face=Georgia>There was a student who was desirous of taking admission for a study course.<BR><BR><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">He was smart enough to get through the written test, a GD and was to appear for the personal interview. Later, as the interview progressed, the interviewer found this boy to be bright since he could answer Althea questions correctly. </FONT><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">The interviewer got impatient and decided to corner the boy.</FONT></FONT><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">Tell me your choice</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">," </SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">said he to the boy</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">,"</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"> What's your choice: I shall either ask you ten easy questions or ONE real difficult. Think well before you make up your mind.</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">The boy thought for a while and said</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">, "</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">My choice is ONE real difficult question.</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">Well, good luck to you, you have made your own choice!</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">" </SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">said the man on the opposite side.</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"> "</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">Tell me: What comes first, Day or Night?</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">The boy was jolted first but he waited for a while and said:</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"> "</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">It's the DAY, sir.</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">How?</FONT><IMG style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif" height=18 alt=:-? src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/33.gif" width=18><IMG style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif" height=18 alt=:-? src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/33.gif" width=18><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">" </SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">the interviewer was smiling</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"> ("</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">At last, I got you!</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">" </SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">he said to himself.</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">)</SPAN><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><FONT style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">Sorry sir, you promised me that you will not ask me a SECOND difficult question!</FONT><SPAN style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">"</SPAN><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif"><BR style="FONT-FAMILY: georgia, serif">Admission for the course was thus secured.  <IMG height=18 alt=;) src="http://us.i1.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/tsmileys2/03.gif" width=18></FONT> </FONT>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 12:22:05 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/22/clever-student.html</link></item><item><title>secret love  --- its touching</title><description><![CDATA[<DIV>From the very Begining, the girl's family objected strongly on her dating this guy. Saying that it has got to do with family background,&amp; that the girl will have to suffer for the rest of her life if she were to be with him. Due to family's pressure, the couple quarrel very often.Though the girl love the guy deeply, but she always ask him: "How deepis your love for me?" As the guy is not good with his words, this often cause the girl to be very upset. With that &amp; the family's pressure,the girl often vent her anger on him. As for him, he only endure it insilence. After a couple of years, the guy finally graduated &amp; decided to further his studies in overseas. Before leaving, he proposed to the girl: "I'm not very good with words. But all I know is that I love you. If you allow me, I will take care of you for the rest of mylife. As for your family, I'll try my best to talk them round. Will you marry me?" The girl agreed, &amp; with the guy's determination, the family finally gave in &amp; agreed to let them get married. So beforehe leave, they got engaged. The girl went out to the working society,whereas the guy was overseas, continuing his studies. They sent their love through emails &amp; phone calls. Though it's hard, but both never thought of giving up. One day, while the girl was on her way to work,she was knocked down by a car that lost control. When she woke up, she saw her parents beside her bed. She realised that she was badly injured. Seeing her mom crying, she wanted to comfort her. But she realized that all that could come out of her mouth was just a sigh. She has lost her voice...... The doctors says that the impact on her brain has caused her to lose her voice. Listening to her parents' comfort,but with nothing coming out from her, she broke down. During the stay in hospital, besides silence cry,.....it's still just silence cry that companied her. Upon reaching home, everything seems to be the same.Except for the ringing tone of the phone. Which pierced into her heart every time it rang. She does not wish to let the guy know. &amp; not wanting to be a burden to him, she wrote a letter to him saying that she does not wish to wait any longer. With that, she sent the ring back to him. In return, the guy sent millions &amp; millions of reply, andcountless of phonecalls,.. all the girl could do, besides crying, isstill crying.... The parents decided to move away, hoping that shecould eventually forget everything &amp; be happy. With a new environment, the girl learn sign language &amp; started a new life.Telling herself everyday that she must forget the guy. One day, her friend came &amp; told her that he's back. She asked her friend not tolet him know what happened to her. Since then, there wasn't anymore news of him. A year has passed &amp; her friend came with an envelope,containing an invitation card for the guy's wedding. The girl wasshattered. When she open the letter, she saw her name in it instead.When she was about to ask her friend what's going on, she saw the guystanding in front of her. He used sign language telling her "I've spent a year's time to learn sign language. Just to let you know that I've not forgotten our promise. Let me have the chance to be your voice. I Love You. With that, he slipped the ring back into her finger. The girl finally smiled...<BR> </DIV><DIV id=highlighterDivCG style="DISPLAY: none; Z-INDEX: -1; POSITION: absolute; BACKGROUND-COLOR: yellow"></DIV>]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 11:46:58 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/22/secret-love-its-touching-1.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead. — Bertrand Russell <?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 15:00:02 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/21/To-fear-love-is-to-fear-life-and-t.html</link></item><item><title>Christ's Beatitudes</title><description><![CDATA[<P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; mso-margin-top-alt: auto; mso-margin-bottom-alt: auto"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Christ's Beatitudes<?xml:namespace prefix = o ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:office" /><o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><P class=MsoNormal style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'">Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. <BR>Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. <BR>Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. <BR>Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled. <BR>Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy. <BR>Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God. <BR>Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God. <BR>Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness' sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. <BR>Blessed are ye, when men shall revile you, and persecute you, and shall say all manner of evil against you falsely, for my sake. <BR>Rejoice, and be exceeding glad: for great is your reward in heaven: for so persecuted they the prophets which were before you. <o:p></o:p></SPAN></P><SPAN style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Courier New'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: EN-US; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA">Matthew 5:1-12 </SPAN>]]></description><pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 14:59:20 +0530</pubDate><link>http://reka.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/21/Christ-s-Beatitudes-1.html</link></item></channel></rss>